I did not go to the doctor for checkups when I was growing up. My scoliosis was never mentioned by a doctor until I was giving birth when I was 19 and I heard the doctor telling the medical students in the room about how to administer the spinal block in my case. He had never mentioned anything about it the whole time I was seeing him during my pregnancy!
My son was about 12 when we first noticed his scoliosis. His doctor suggested physical therapy for him, but he did end up needing to have surgery. It was first scheduled when he was 17 but due to the surgeon rescheduling a couple of times he didn't get the surgery till after he graduated high school at 18. I felt so badly for him! He had gotten sick from the morphine in the hospital, so didn't take pain pills during his recovery. Ouch! Unlike myself, at the point when Devin had his surgery he had already started experiencing pain in his back. When we were told that his organs would end up being restricted without the surgery, he made the decision to go ahead and do it. He was so brave! After his surgery, he volunteered for a program where his surgeon could refer people to him to talk to about the process and what he went through. I was really proud of him for taking part in that. So kids and parents, if you are facing this surgery, ask your doctor if they have such a program. There are also a lot of links on the net now, and I'll post those on my blog for you.
My own back didn't start causing me pain until I was in my thirties. I developed severe degenerative disk disease and incredible pain and spasms. I went to several local doctors and tried all kinds of things--physical therapy, all kinds of pills,shoe lifts. There didn't seem to be any relief. No one seemed to want to refer me to a surgeon and I felt totally hopeless. I spent a lot of time crying, a lot of time lying in the bathtub trying to soak the pain away. Then suddenly at work a few years ago, I started experiencing bladder problems. I went to all kinds of specialists, urologists, gynecologists, everyone I could think of, but nobody seemed to be able to diagnose my problem, let alone solve it. Then one day I was researching scoliosis on the net, and I discovered that severe scoliosis could cause bladder problems. I went to my gp and told him what I suspected. He referred me to an orthopedic surgeon. Finally I began seeing some light at the end of the tunnel! I will say that neither doctor ever diagnosed that my bladder problem had anything to do with my scoliosis. I'll also say that I chose to have surgery for my scoliosis and I no longer have the bladder problem. So--if it's a coincidence, who cares, lol.
The surgery was a big, big deal! My scoliosis was at 75% so the muscles on one side of my back were totally knotted and overdeveloped and the muscles on the other side of my back were practically nonexistent. I also had a kyphosis at the bottom of my spine. So the surgeon spent 14 hours on one day putting two rods in and fusing my disks from the thoracic spine down. He spent five hours a couple of days later rebuilding and fusing my lower spine. My curve is now at 22% so there is a big difference! I could not sit for more than five minutes for the longest time! It took a month or so before I could sit for 15 minutes. I was able to walk to exercise, only the first 2 weeks with a walker. So standing and walking were okay, I just couldn't sit. It was very painful and unlike my brave son I wanted all the pain meds and muscle relaxants I could get! I didn't get off the pills for about six months, and that was of my own volition. They start to mess up the rest of your body and of course they begin to wear off faster and faster and the more you take, the more your body will get messed up. But I'm sorry. ..I have to scoff at the drug recovery places that call pain an "excuse" that people use to take drugs. Pain is real, you have to deal with it, not discount it. If you have alternatives, then teach them, but don't dismiss people's pain.
I am sitting here a year and a half later and am just now feeling that I did the right thing, after all. It takes a long time to recover from something like this at this age. Last night I finally was able to get in and out of the bathtub, with aid of a little handrail, and that was a major accomplishment! I always loved my tub baths and boy have I been missing those! Hard to lie back in the tub with a rigid spine, though. I couldn't find a good position! Anybody have suggestions for that?
For a long time I did not want to go anywhere and socialize because I had to worry about where I could sit. I still have somewhat the same problem, but to a lesser degree. I try to choose restaurants with booths and try to go places where I know my back will be well supported; or I swallow my pride and take a backrest or pillow. Then there's the balance problem! For years and years you're leaning one way and all of a sudden you're not! You find yourself falling over all the time, heh heh. I'm still pretty paranoid about tripping and falling.
Just the other day I noticed that the excruciating pain I used to have from the pressure on my crumbling disks. ..it's gone! Slowly but surely I notice new things I can do and then I'm glad I made this decision. It just takes patience. I do not wish to suggest that surgery is the only path to take in addressing scoliosis. I would consider it a last resort. My niece for example has been regularly seeing a chiropractor for hers and achieving great results.
This blog is not just for my griping, so please write to me and share your stories, experiences, and suggestions. I'll publish them here. I'll help anybody with any question anytime. Also, please explore the links I've placed below. They were very helpful to me before and after my surgery.
Luck and love to all of you!